All though my original purpose of blogging was to stay focused on my goals I have drifted all over the place. Just kind of speaking to where I am in this thing called life. It is very tricky being transparent but not too personal. My families privacy is theirs not mine to tell. However, I would like to tell you about a man that I could never know enough about.
This man I grew up with my whole life but could never deeply understand. He was a man who loved deeply but didn’t know how to show it. You see this man knew little of love growing up, or at least little of the nurturing kind. The family struggled greatly for food and clothing. The children were on their own young and found their way somehow. He was caloused and hardened laboring as a young teen.
One day he met a young woman who had the opposite rearing. Not wealthy but doing ok. He admired her enough to go to a tent revival just to see her. She later led him to love and eventually he found love personified in a life with Christ as well. Together there was a balance, a completeness. They had a family and weathered the ups and downs together. They were a unit, whole.
Until one day the man lost his soulmate. He was never complete again. He did continue as was possible because he was strong and even a bit, a lot, stubborn. Time passed and he pushed through his lopsided life until it came his time to transition. The days were numbered and all he wanted was to see his bride and his Lord. On his last day he spoke to her. He could be heard introducing her to people and calling her name. The reunion must have wonderful.
The man left such an impression on everyone that his funeral, with a packed church, changed from a sad ending to a roast of sorts. Random people stood and told humorous stories of his life. He was still being the life of the party even in his death. What a legacy and what an assurance!
I have never liked the whole Rest In Peace phrase so I will just end with; love and be loved on for Eternity, Dad.
“Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.”
Shannon L. Alder